Between Man & Woman

I realised it is rather a complicated issue between both genders since the start of the time.
Let's not talk all the way back from Adam & Eve, Gorilla & Ape, Dinosaur & King Kong.

It really takes alot of courage, determination, trust, faith, respect and most of all patience to clap the two hands and hold on.
And generally it is almost not possible to be at good terms twenty four, seven.
I shall not quote the unhappiness between couples whom I known of personally.

All that I learned is that it is really not easy,especially living in an age whereby we are getting more selfish and less tolerant.

The temptation outside, the financial issue, the characters/personalities/views clashes, the in-laws opposition and the numerous factors generally leads to the rise of divorce cases andperhaps the lost of humanity in the society.

When Jason and I had any arguement, more often than not I knew it is my fault though I never admits to it.
I practice alot of less tolerence and am selfish most of the time. I think I care more about my feeling than his.
I think it is his luck for sticking through so far.*snickers*

I dunno how long this feeling can last. Sometimes feeling comes and goes and sometimes may be lead astray by the seemly beautiful things outside.

Remember the previous issue whereby there are some school of thought stating love is a decision?
I respect that!

Love indeed is beyond that feeling. Sure feeling is the beginning and is where it all begins. But in a more and more complex age, feeling is vulnerable.
It could be a mere few years after marraige that feeling dies or some even before you take the oath.

Jason couldnt be the very best, like there is nothing/none best if comparision is made.

I'm sure there are a lot of times whereby Jason was tested/challenged by the tyrant me if he should still stay by me.

And it is that decision that I respect.




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